I was interviewing a guy a few weeks ago and closed with this final question, "Would I like you - are you likable?" I then added, "If I asked people around you, would they say you are likable?"
He paused and expressed that he had never been asked the before. I waited for his answer.
Ask yourself a few questions:
- Do you want people to say that you are likable?
- Do you really want to work with someone who is not likable?
- Do you want a friend who is likable?